Create
Write the Aspects for one relationship type — what you actually ask about in session. That template is your product; it doesn't change per client.
Relationship alignment · for leaders and teams
Know what your team will not say out loud.
Two people answer the same questions blind. You see where intention and experience part company — and what to do next.
Free to start · no card
One relationship is bought once, every session after it is yours, and you are named as its coach rather than answering as a party.
Worked example · Relationship Basics
Answered in Basic mode
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How much time do you spend together in a normal week?
Rare → Constant · Feel Gap 3
How is the work of the household divided?
All mine → Evenly split · Feel Gap 1
How are money and the decisions about it handled?
Kept separate → Fully shared · In Synch
When there is a disagreement, how is it raised?
Left unsaid → Said plainly · Feel Gap 1
How often do you show affection?
Rarely → Often · Feel Gap 1
Two answers per Aspect; the distance between them is the Gap. When both answers match, the Gap is 0 and the row says In Synch — the brand's spelling of in sync.
How the work works
One approach. Used with every relationship.
Invite both sides
Send it to your client and to their counterparty. Neither sees the other's answers until both accept — so nothing is softened for your benefit.
Run the session
The report names every Gap by kind and size, and the Steps that follow from it. That's your agenda, and why the next conversation has somewhere to go.
The mechanism
The same question, answered twice
Every Aspect gets two answers, one from each of you. Neither is a score to chase. One says where the relationship is today; the other says where you each want it to go.
You
They
You
How does it feel to you?
They
How does it feel to them?
The same Aspect from both sides. Subtract one score from the other and you have the Feel Gap.
You
How do you wish it to be?
They
How do they wish it to be?
What each of you wants next, on the same Aspect. The Wish Gap is how far those two wishes sit apart.
The catalogue
Start from the relationship you have.
A shelf of the catalogue's templates, one per realm a practice meets first: what each one asks, who it is between, and what it costs. Every template in the catalogue is one the product can run, so nothing here is for sale that it cannot.
Staff–Manager
OfficeStaff ↔ Manager
6 Aspects$9.99 per relationship
Co-founders
BusinessCo-founder A ↔ Co-founder B
7 Aspects$9.99 per relationship
Parent–Teacher
SchoolParent ↔ Teacher
5 Aspects$9.99 per relationship
Patient–Caregiver
MedicalPatient ↔ Caregiver
6 Aspects$9.99 per relationship
Parent–Child
HomeParent ↔ Child
6 Aspects$9.99 per relationship
Friend A–Friend B
SocialFriend A ↔ Friend B
5 Aspects$9.99 per relationship
Scope
Twenty-seven relationship types, across seven realms.
A type is only offered if a template backs it, so you are never selling something the product can't run. Business and Office relationships are a practice's spine; Home and Social are what clients bring with them.
- Office
- 5
- Business
- 4
- Property
- 1
- School
- 2
- Medical
- 1
- Home
- 10
- Social
- 4
Business
- Read Marco and Priya
Staff / Manager
Staff & Manager · 5 Aspects
Personal
- Read Ruth and Sam
Parent / Child
Parent & Child · 5 Aspects
Your seat
You're the coach on the relationship — a role, not a third answer.
Three seats exist on every relationship. The coach reads the relationship and runs the cycle; the two parties answer. A coach never submits an opinion, so the report can't be shaped by the person being paid for it.
Initiator
Bought the relationship and invited the other side.
Counterparty
Answers independently, blind until both accept.
Coach
Reads, runs the session, starts the next cycle. No opinion of their own.
What this page does not claim.
No pay figures, no client counts, no logos. The product model is real and priced per relationship.
Product news
A note when we ship something that changes how the product works. No schedule, and every message says how to stop.