Relationship alignment · for practitioners

Turn one assessment into a practice you can charge for.

Pick a relationship type, write the Aspects you actually work on, and send it to a client and the person they're aligning with. Both answer blind. You get the Gap — and the agenda for the session.

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One relationship is bought once, every session after it is yours, and you are named as its coach rather than answering as a party.

Worked example · Relationship Basics

Answered in Basic mode

AveryRowan

How much time do you spend together in a normal week?

Rare → Constant · Feel Gap 3

How is the work of the household divided?

All mine → Evenly split · Feel Gap 1

How are money and the decisions about it handled?

Kept separate → Fully shared · In Synch

When there is a disagreement, how is it raised?

Left unsaid → Said plainly · Feel Gap 1

How often do you show affection?

Rarely → Often · Feel Gap 1

Two answers per Aspect; the distance between them is the Gap. When both answers match, the Gap is 0 and the row says In Synch — the brand's spelling of in sync.

How the practice works

Create once. Run it with every client.

Create

Write the Aspects for one relationship type — what you actually ask about in session. That template is your product; it doesn't change per client.

Invite both sides

Send it to your client and to their counterparty. Neither sees the other's answers until both accept — so nothing is softened for your benefit.

Run the session

The report names every Gap by kind and size, and the Steps that follow from it. That's your agenda, and the reason the next session is billable.

The mechanism

The same question, answered twice

Every Aspect gets two answers, one from each of you. Neither is a score to chase. One says where the relationship is today; the other says where you each want it to go.

You

They

You

How does it feel to you?

They

How does it feel to them?

The same Aspect from both sides. Subtract one score from the other and you have the Feel Gap.

You

How do you wish it to be?

They

How do they wish it to be?

What each of you wants next, on the same Aspect. The Wish Gap is how far those two wishes sit apart.

The catalogue

Start from a type, a template, or your own list.

The catalogue is every relationship type this product sells; the library is what this deployment has already built. A type is only offered if a template backs it, so nothing here is for sale that the product can't run.

Staff–Manager

Office

Staff ↔ Manager

6 Aspects$9.99

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Coworker–Colleague

Office

Coworker ↔ Colleague

5 Aspects$9.99

Turn one assessment into a practice you can charge for.

Create once. Run it with every client.

Create

Invite both sides

Run the session

The same question, answered twice

Start from a type, a template, or your own list.

Staff–Manager

Coworker–Colleague

Business Partner A–Business Partner B

Project Manager–Team Member

Project Teammate A–Project Teammate B

Customer–Vendor Product

Customer–Vendor Services

Investor–SponsorEntrepreneur

Co-founders

HOA Board Member–Owner

Parent–Teacher

Teacher–Student

Patient–Caregiver

Spouse A–Spouse B

Parent–Child

Father–Son

Father–Daughter

Mother–Son

Mother–Daughter

Sibling A–Sibling B

Brother–Sister

Sister A–Sister B

Brother A–Brother B

Friend A–Friend B

Guy Friend A–Guy Friend B

Gal Friend A–Gal Friend B

Guy Friend–Gal Friend

Twenty-seven relationship types, across seven realms.

Business

Personal

You're the coach on the relationship — a role, not a third answer.

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