Where you stand
13 Gaps exceed Soft. The widest is a Gap of 3 on What happens to the company if one of you leaves?
Soft Setting: Small Gap (1) OK – a satisfactory Setting.
Each Gap's bar has a tick at 1 of 4: the widest Gap your Soft Setting tolerates.
How is ownership of the company divided?
Unspoken—Agreed and written down
Feelings and Wishes Differ
How is ownership of the company divided? — Feelings and Wishes Differ| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Feel Gap | You Feel3vsThem Feel4 | 1 |
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| Wish Gap | You Wish5vsThem Wish4 | 1 |
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Desires To Change
How is ownership of the company divided? — Desires To Change| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Initiator Gap | You Feel3vsYou Wish5 | 2 |
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| Counterparty Gap | Them Feel4vsThem Wish4 | 0In Synch |
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Prediction Gaps and Analysis
How is ownership of the company divided? — Prediction Gaps and Analysis| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Initiator Think Gap | You Think3vsThem Feel4 | 1 |
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| Initiator Guess Gap | You Guess4vsThem Wish4 | 0In Synch |
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| Counterparty Think Gap | Them Think4vsYou Feel3 | 1 |
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| Counterparty Guess Gap | Them Guess3vsYou Wish5 | 2 |
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How are the big decisions about the product made?
One decides—Made together
Feelings and Wishes Differ
How are the big decisions about the product made? — Feelings and Wishes Differ| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Feel Gap | You Feel3vsThem Feel2 | 1 |
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| Wish Gap | You Wish4vsThem Wish4 | 0In Synch |
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Desires To Change
How are the big decisions about the product made? — Desires To Change| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Initiator Gap | You Feel3vsYou Wish4 | 1 |
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| Counterparty Gap | Them Feel2vsThem Wish4 | 2 |
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Prediction Gaps and Analysis
How are the big decisions about the product made? — Prediction Gaps and Analysis| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Initiator Think Gap | You Think4vsThem Feel2 | 2 |
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| Initiator Guess Gap | You Guess3vsThem Wish4 | 1 |
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| Counterparty Think Gap | Them Think2vsYou Feel3 | 1 |
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| Counterparty Guess Gap | Them Guess4vsYou Wish4 | 0In Synch |
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How is the work split between the two of you?
All on one—Evenly shared
Feelings and Wishes Differ
How is the work split between the two of you? — Feelings and Wishes Differ| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Feel Gap | You Feel2vsThem Feel4 | 2 |
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| Wish Gap | You Wish4vsThem Wish4 | 0In Synch |
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Desires To Change
How is the work split between the two of you? — Desires To Change| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Initiator Gap | You Feel2vsYou Wish4 | 2 |
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| Counterparty Gap | Them Feel4vsThem Wish4 | 0In Synch |
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Prediction Gaps and Analysis
How is the work split between the two of you? — Prediction Gaps and Analysis| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Initiator Think Gap | You Think3vsThem Feel4 | 1 |
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| Initiator Guess Gap | You Guess4vsThem Wish4 | 0In Synch |
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| Counterparty Think Gap | Them Think4vsYou Feel2 | 2 |
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| Counterparty Guess Gap | Them Guess3vsYou Wish4 | 1 |
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When you disagree about direction, how is it resolved?
Left unspoken—Worked through
Feelings and Wishes Differ
When you disagree about direction, how is it resolved? — Feelings and Wishes Differ| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Feel Gap | You Feel3vsThem Feel2 | 1 |
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| Wish Gap | You Wish5vsThem Wish4 | 1 |
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Desires To Change
When you disagree about direction, how is it resolved? — Desires To Change| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Initiator Gap | You Feel3vsYou Wish5 | 2 |
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| Counterparty Gap | Them Feel2vsThem Wish4 | 2 |
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Prediction Gaps and Analysis
When you disagree about direction, how is it resolved? — Prediction Gaps and Analysis| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Initiator Think Gap | You Think3vsThem Feel2 | 1 |
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| Initiator Guess Gap | You Guess4vsThem Wish4 | 0In Synch |
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| Counterparty Think Gap | Them Think1vsYou Feel3 | 2 |
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| Counterparty Guess Gap | Them Guess4vsYou Wish5 | 1 |
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How are money drawn and reinvested decided?
One calls it—Agreed together
Feelings and Wishes Differ
How are money drawn and reinvested decided? — Feelings and Wishes Differ| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Feel Gap | You Feel2vsThem Feel3 | 1 |
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| Wish Gap | You Wish4vsThem Wish4 | 0In Synch |
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Desires To Change
How are money drawn and reinvested decided? — Desires To Change| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Initiator Gap | You Feel2vsYou Wish4 | 2 |
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| Counterparty Gap | Them Feel3vsThem Wish4 | 1 |
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Prediction Gaps and Analysis
How are money drawn and reinvested decided? — Prediction Gaps and Analysis| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Initiator Think Gap | You Think2vsThem Feel3 | 1 |
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| Initiator Guess Gap | You Guess4vsThem Wish4 | 0In Synch |
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| Counterparty Think Gap | Them Think3vsYou Feel2 | 1 |
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| Counterparty Guess Gap | Them Guess4vsYou Wish4 | 0In Synch |
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How much do you each know about the other's work?
Little—Most of it
Feelings and Wishes Differ
How much do you each know about the other's work? — Feelings and Wishes Differ| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Feel Gap | You Feel4vsThem Feel3 | 1 |
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| Wish Gap | You Wish4vsThem Wish5 | 1 |
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Desires To Change
How much do you each know about the other's work? — Desires To Change| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Initiator Gap | You Feel4vsYou Wish4 | 0In Synch |
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| Counterparty Gap | Them Feel3vsThem Wish5 | 2 |
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Prediction Gaps and Analysis
How much do you each know about the other's work? — Prediction Gaps and Analysis| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Initiator Think Gap | You Think4vsThem Feel3 | 1 |
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| Initiator Guess Gap | You Guess4vsThem Wish5 | 1 |
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| Counterparty Think Gap | Them Think3vsYou Feel4 | 1 |
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| Counterparty Guess Gap | Them Guess4vsYou Wish4 | 0In Synch |
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What happens to the company if one of you leaves?
Never discussed—Planned in advance
Feelings and Wishes Differ
What happens to the company if one of you leaves? — Feelings and Wishes Differ| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Feel Gap | You Feel1vsThem Feel2 | 1 |
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| Wish Gap | You Wish4vsThem Wish3 | 1 |
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Desires To Change
What happens to the company if one of you leaves? — Desires To Change| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Initiator Gap | You Feel1vsYou Wish4 | 3 |
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| Counterparty Gap | Them Feel2vsThem Wish3 | 1 |
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Prediction Gaps and Analysis
What happens to the company if one of you leaves? — Prediction Gaps and Analysis| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
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| Initiator Think Gap | You Think2vsThem Feel2 | 0In Synch |
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| Initiator Guess Gap | You Guess3vsThem Wish3 | 0In Synch |
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| Counterparty Think Gap | Them Think2vsYou Feel1 | 1 |
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| Counterparty Guess Gap | Them Guess4vsYou Wish4 | 0In Synch |
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