Staff & Manager
Basic Mode
Relationship Type: Business — the glossary's Staff / Manager descriptor, Realm: Office. Five Aspects of a working relationship — priorities, feedback, workload, decisions and development — each answered from how it feels now to how you wish it to change.
Where you stand
12 Gaps exceed Soft. The widest is a Gap of 4 on How is the workload split between the two of you?
Soft Setting: Small Gap (1) OK – a satisfactory Setting.
Each Gap's bar has a tick at 1 of 4: the widest Gap your Soft Setting tolerates.
How are the week's priorities agreed?
Set for me—Agreed together
Feelings and Wishes Differ
| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
|---|---|---|
| Feel Gap | Marco Feel2Priya Feel5 | 3 |
| Wish Gap | Marco Wish5Priya Wish2 | 3 |
Desires To Change
| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
|---|---|---|
| Initiator Gap | Marco Feel2Marco Wish5 | 3 |
| Counterparty Gap | Priya Feel5Priya Wish2 | 3 |
How is feedback on the work given?
Never said—Said directly
Feelings and Wishes Differ
| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
|---|---|---|
| Feel Gap | Marco Feel3Priya Feel2 | 1 |
| Wish Gap | Marco Wish4Priya Wish3 | 1 |
Desires To Change
| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
|---|---|---|
| Initiator Gap | Marco Feel3Marco Wish4 | 1 |
| Counterparty Gap | Priya Feel2Priya Wish3 | 1 |
How is the workload split between the two of you?
All on me—Evenly shared
Feelings and Wishes Differ
| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
|---|---|---|
| Feel Gap | Marco Feel5Priya Feel1 | 4 |
| Wish Gap | Marco Wish3Priya Wish2 | 1 |
Desires To Change
| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
|---|---|---|
| Initiator Gap | Marco Feel5Marco Wish3 | 2 |
| Counterparty Gap | Priya Feel1Priya Wish2 | 1 |
How are the decisions about the work made?
Manager decides—Decided together
Feelings and Wishes Differ
| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
|---|---|---|
| Feel Gap | Marco Feel1Priya Feel3 | 2 |
| Wish Gap | Marco Wish5Priya Wish4 | 1 |
Desires To Change
| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
|---|---|---|
| Initiator Gap | Marco Feel1Marco Wish5 | 4 |
| Counterparty Gap | Priya Feel3Priya Wish4 | 1 |
How much do you talk about growth and what comes next?
Never—Every review
Feelings and Wishes Differ
| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
|---|---|---|
| Feel Gap | Marco Feel4Priya Feel1 | 3 |
| Wish Gap | Marco Wish2Priya Wish4 | 2 |
Desires To Change
| Gap | The two Opinions it compares | Gap value |
|---|---|---|
| Initiator Gap | Marco Feel4Marco Wish2 | 2 |
| Counterparty Gap | Priya Feel1Priya Wish4 | 3 |