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One template, two seats, and the two choices that shape every screen after this one.

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Its Aspects are copied into the relationship at creation. Nothing on this screen edits them.

Parent & Child

Relationship Type: Personal — the glossary's Parent / Child descriptor, Realm: Home. Five Aspects of raising a child together — check-ins, house rules, trust, one-to-one time and privacy — each answered from how it feels now to how you wish it to change.

5 Aspects

Two seats: an Initiator and a Counterparty. Both answer the same sheet, and neither sees the other's answers until both accept.

Who and how

Your name — the InitiatorThe seat this relationship is created from.

Who you are askingDisplay only: the seat is filled when they claim the invitation. A name typed here is not a party.Their email addressThe invitation goes here. Without a mailer, the relationship page shows the link instead.

ModeBasic ModeFeel and Wish on every Aspect.Advanced ModeFeel, Wish, Think and Guess on every Aspect.

Mode is fixed at creation. Both parties answer one shape, so two sheets can be compared.

SettingSoftSmall Gap (1) OK – a satisfactory Setting.FullNo Gap OK – an exceptional Setting.

Setting is what a party may change later: it moves the bar the report is judged against, never a question.

Submitting copies the Aspects, creates the relationship and sends one invitation. Nobody has answered anything yet.

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