What is it, technically?
This is a private cloud-based “Soft Communication Tool” that helps avoid tough discussions and surprises. It is a “Relationship Risk Management App”, “Expectation Management Gadget”, and “Feedback Portal” to provide comfort and satisfaction in knowing that both of your thoughts are “on the same page”.
Simply put: Play with Relationship Aspects, Register, Invite Counterparty, Give Opinions, Share, & Discuss.
How it Works
Pick the perfect template that complements your vibe with that someone you want to align with. Each template comes with a ingenious set of aspect questions to answer, perfectly tailored to your relationship type.
Come on, spill the beans! The Template wants to know your take on certain Relationship Aspects! And, while we're at it, where do you see them going in the future?
Once your "Feel" and "Wish" Opinions have been marked, invite the "Counterparty" to also privately answer. Both of you have to finish before the big reveal.
Let's get real, folks! Once both parties have shared their Opinions, voila! The results and differences are out in the open. Congratulations, you get to now "work on the Relationship" indefinitely.
Are you feeling potentially out-of-synch? Use the AlignSynch Dashboard to see areas where you are or aren’t aligned! Get ready for some juicy discussions or In-App Chat for every Aspect.
Purpose
(a tool to) To express or resolve
a difference in opinion
on how you feel, wish, think, or guess
about various aspects of a relationship.
The ultimate in two-way Expectation Management,
Communication, and Relationship Alignment
– now with MetaCognition™ and TernaryThinking™
Progress is moving forward, however so slightly, giving hope.
You would be surprised how often the answer is not yes or no, but part way in between is comfortable!
Simple Steps To Improve Relationships
As the Initiator, you then Invite the Counterparty to AlignSynch so they may record their Opinions regarding the same Aspects.
Then both Parties can share their Opinions, show the differences, and spark constructive discussions to decrease the Gaps, thus improving the Relationship.
Ah, business and personal relationships - the emotional equivalent of a soufflé. You start with fluffy anticipation, but sometimes it collapses like a failed baking experiment. Fear not! Here’s your recipe for relationship recovery.
A Job (or marriage, partner, or vendor) starts out fitting great: you, the company, your manager, and the job duties are all aligned, like a great pair of jeans. Then, so-and-so leaves and your job duties shift a bit. Next, the company offers a new product line and you have different responsibilities. Lastly, your wife has a baby and your manager gets a divorce. (not using AlignSynch : ) Now, that same pair of jeans are chafing you in the back of the knees. What do you do?
You both mark your Opinion on how you FEEL each Aspect is now and how you WISH each Aspect to move in the future.
AlignSynch will highlight to both Parties which Aspects of the Relationship you FEEL & WISH differently, and prompt you to chat about them.
What is the goal?
- Reach a state of agreement, harmony, and understanding with anyone.
- Softly communicate how you would like an Aspect of the Relationship to slowly change in the future.
- Handle Expectations and effectively communicate them.
- Reduce stress and risk by knowing you are In-Synch.
The Four (4) Opinions on each Aspect -
Normal
0
false
false
false
EN-US
JA
AR-SA
/* Style Definitions */
table.MsoNormalTable
{mso-style-name:"Table Normal";
mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0;
mso-tstyle-colband-size:0;
mso-style-noshow:yes;
mso-style-priority:99;
mso-style-parent:"";
mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt;
mso-para-margin:0in;
mso-pagination:widow-orphan;
font-size:11.0pt;
font-family:"Calibri",sans-serif;
mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;
mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;
mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;
mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;
mso-bidi-font-family:Arial;
mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi;}
Most people do not realize there are 4 “views”
regarding your Opinion of an Aspect within a Relationship.
These perspectives include how you Feel, Wish, Think, and Guess
about that Aspect in relation to yourself and your Counterparty.
Your perspective of how you Feel it is Now.
(Your Now)
Your perspective of how you Wish it to Move in the Future.
(Your Future)
Your perspective of how You Think They Feel Now.
(Their Now)
Your perspective of how You Guess
They Wish it to move in the Future.
Their Wish)
Why people use AlignSynch
52% To make a good Relationship a better fantastic Relationship.
43% To solve known difference in the Relationship.
36% To prevent surprises, like insurance for a valuable Relationship.
28% A soft alternative communication tool, since having a verbal chat about the subject is difficult for them.
